When is it a problem?
What causes the feelings of loneliness
The feeling of loneliness can be caused by a number of reasons and each person has there own individual experience of the reasons why they could be experiencing loneliness.
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We can never understand what anyone's experience is really like when they feel lonely because each one in itself is different.
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But there are a number of themed root causes that could trigger the feelings of loneliness/
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Having a recent bereavement
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going through a relationship breakdown
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starting a new school, college of a university.
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finishing education and leaving a school, college or university and not being around the same people.
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retiring and losing the social contact you had at work.
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changing jobs and feeling isolated from your co-workers.
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moving to a new area away from your family, friends or community networks.
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Leaving shared accommodation with a group of friends to a house on your own.
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Starting your own family and having a baby.
How to reduce the feelings of loneliness
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Learning more about becoming comfortable within your own space and company.
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Trying to open up to people you know.
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Taking it slow not to overwhelm yourself.
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Making new connections and meeting new people within social groups and activities.
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Trying not to compare yourself to others everyone's journey is different.